Caviar de la Nuit
Caviar de la Nuit: everything you need to know about this exclusive lingerie party for couples
Discover what makes Caviar de la Nuit so special in this blog. Everything about the dress code, membership, locations and atmosphere of this high-end erotic party for couples and women in Belgium and the Netherlands.
What is Caviar de la Nuit?
Caviar de la Nuit is an exclusive lingerie party for couples, founded by Beau in the winter of 2015. What began with a first edition in a castle in Antwerp has grown into a staple within the open-minded community in Belgium and the Netherlands. Today, Caviar de la Nuit is a private community of hundreds of stylish couples who gather multiple times a year at carefully selected locations.
The evenings are about sophistication, sensuality, and aesthetics. No provocation, no extremes – but class, atmosphere, and room for subtle seduction. The guest list is carefully curated, the locations are breathtaking, and the setting is discreet and stylish.
What to expect: an evening where luxurious lingerie, stylish music, and sensual entertainment come together in an environment that invites you to fully immerse yourself in the moment.
Is Caviar de la Nuit a swingers' party?
One of the most frequently asked questions about Caviar de la Nuit. The short answer: no, Caviar de la Nuit is not a swingers' party. But it deserves nuance.
On the dance floor, people are dancing. The music builds; the tension hangs heavy in the air and couples are enjoying each other and the world around them. Nothing else happens there. It's an evening where you can go out in lingerie and a suit together; sensual, atmospheric and without any further expectations of you.
At some locations there is a separate room, sometimes referred to as a love lounge. Here, intimacy with your partner or with other guests is possible for those seeking it. The most important thing to know: this area is completely optional. Do you just want a sexy night out with your partner, dancing, flirting, enjoying the atmosphere? Then you can go to Caviar de la Nuit without ever visiting that room.
That's exactly what makes this party special. It's about normalising sensuality between consenting adults, not about obligation. Everyone sets their own pace. Nothing is compulsory, everything is allowed, within the mutual respect that forms the foundation of Caviar de la Nuit.
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€ 229,00Who is Caviar de la Nuit intended for?
Caviar de la Nuit appeals to an open-minded audience that consciously chooses class and discretion. The average age is between 30 and 45 years, with a mix of young couples just entering this world and experienced members who have been part of the community for years.
Whether you already have experience with this kind of exclusive experience or are curious about a first time: as long as you come with an open mind and a sense of elegance, you belong. You set your own pace.
Hoe word je lid van Caviar de la Nuit?
Caviar de la Nuit is not a public party, but a private experience for a carefully selected group. You can apply via the website, where you will be asked to share personal information and a short motivation. Each application is assessed individually. Not on appearance, but on attitude, style and intention.
Caviar de la Nuit works with three different membership types:
Membership silver is free and gives you access to buy tickets for events. However, with limited access to the online platform and no priority in ticket sales.
Pink membership is a paid monthly membership that gives you partial access to the community. You can create a personal profile, view other members, chat with them and see event guest lists.
Gold membership It's the comprehensive monthly membership and offers full access. In addition to all Pink features, you get priority ticket sales, you can see who has visited your profile, and you have access to DJ sets. Gold members also get exclusive access to the Soirée d’Or events.
Current rates and conditions can be found on the Caviar de la Nuit website.
Signature events vs. Soirée d'Or: what's the difference?
Caviar de la Nuit organises various types of events per year. The two main types:
Signature events The grand parties for approximately 500 to 700 guests are the definitive way to fully experience what Caviar de la Nuit stands for. These editions take place at iconic venues, with multiple areas, performances, international DJs, and extensive entertainment.
Golden Evening The extra exclusive events are only accessible to Gold members. A smaller group, a more intimate venue, an even more personal character. These evenings are aimed at couples who want to get the most out of their membership and are looking for a more private experience.
Locations: castles, abbeys, and secret places in Belgium and the Netherlands
The locations are one of the most talked-about aspects of Caviar de la Nuit. The events take place in secret, enchanting settings: 12th-century abbeys in Hasselt, castles in Antwerp, chapels near the Dutch border in the region of Breda and Eindhoven. Each one a location with history, atmosphere, and architecture that give the evening an extra dimension.
The exact location will only be sent to you via private email one to two days before the event. When purchasing your ticket, you will only see the city or region. Those who wish can book a hotel room within walking distance of the party directly through the ticket shop.
The dress code at Caviar de la Nuit
The Caviar de la Nuit dress code reflects the exclusive nature of the event. Don't expect standard rules, but rather a carefully chosen theme that suits the specific edition. After purchasing your ticket, you will receive clear guidelines and inspiration for that evening's theme via email.
For ladies geldt: high-end lingerie is central. Refined materials such as leather, lace, silk and mesh are combined with accessories that highlight your personality. Elegant heels are mandatory. No flat shoes, no trainers, no ballet pumps. See-through dresses, mid-dresses, long or short robes, shirts, trousers, skirts and catsuits are not permitted.
For gentlemen Applicable: a custom-made two or three-piece suit or a tuxedo. Combine with smart, elegant men's shoes. No trainers, no sporty loafers. Jeans, t-shirts, linen shirts and caps are forbidden. A bare chest is never allowed.
The dress code will be strictly enforced. Dress code watchers will be present at every edition to assess entry. If you do not comply with the guidelines, you will not be granted access to the party without a refund. It is therefore worth preparing your outfit carefully.
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€ 189,00The editions, the themes and the atmosphere
Each edition of Caviar de la Nuit has its own theme that dictates the colour palette, the fabrics and the atmosphere. Around this theme, the location, entertainment and music are brought together to create one cohesive evening. International DJs play elegant house beats, performers present refined dance acts and subtle theatrical elements – never flashy, always stylish.
The themes vary greatly from one edition to another. One evening is romantic and soft, with colours such as white, pearl, and soft pink, and accessories like feathers, lace, and gloves. Another edition is bold and dark, with black as the main colour, statement pieces, and room for leather or latex. Yet another edition celebrates colour, animal prints, or historical elegance. Some evenings take place in a sacred setting, such as a chapel, while others are held in a brilliantly lit castle.
For some editions, there is room for a bolder choice of materials. For themes that call for strength, dark elegance, or a wild dress code, leather and latex are welcome, provided they are stylish and in balance with the concept of the evening. For these types of editions, Caviar de la Nuit itself refers to VoyeurX in its dress code inspiration.
The theme will be shared in detail beforehand, giving you time to perfect your outfit.Collaboration between VoyeurX and Caviar de la Nuit
For editions where leather falls within the dress code, VoyeurX regularly works closely with Caviar de la Nuit. This collaboration takes shape in various ways.
At the entrance, champagne ladies in VoyeurX outfits welcome guests with a glass of bubbly. It sets the tone for the rest of the evening, even before you've properly entered. On the dance floor, dancers move in iconic VoyeurX sets; their shapes follow the rhythm of the music, providing a visual anchor for the evening. Throughout the night, Polaroid ladies, dressed in VoyeurX, wander around with an analogue camera in hand. They immortalise couples on a Polaroid, a tangible fragment of the evening to take home with you.
VoyeurX is not an accessory on these evenings. It is an extension of the atmosphere.
Why VoyeurX is a perfect match for Caviar de la Nuit
VoyeurX and Caviar de la Nuit share the same dedication to the exclusive. A world where nothing is left to chance and where every detail contributes to the atmosphere of the evening. Caviar de la Nuit curates the location, music, entertainment and dress code into a cohesive whole. VoyeurX does the same for the body.
The designs are stylish, sophisticated and sensual. Handmade from soft, high-quality leather that moulds to your body and moves with you, all night long. Every strap, every buckle, every line is thoughtfully considered. Not a loud fetish look, but leather with a silhouette suited for an evening where style is paramount.
It is precisely this attention to detail that makes VoyeurX fit so naturally with Caviar de la Nuit. Two worlds that enhance each other and together make an evening possible where everything is just right, right down to the skin.
